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“It scared the shit out of me": Investing $23,000 with 1 Coach & Riding The Wave.
I saw this great video yesterday and it made me feel so connected to my stories of investing with coaches.

The video made me realise, I’m not scared of putting down the money to get a coach. I am scared of riding the wave!
The same goes when we feel the call to embark on a healing & transformative journey with a coach.
Deep down, we know:
“If I go through with this, it means I’m going to have to address my pain, my dark places & the things I chronically avoid. I can't hide if I go through with this & I don't know what will happen. I am going to have to ride the wave.”
I think this is why I believe in the transformative power of coaching so much.
Coaches have a very unique & special relationship with clients.
They are not your friend, family or therapist.
Coaches can push you.
Coaches can call you out.
Coaches can stretch you beyond your excuses.
Coaches can transform your life greater than you can initially imagine.
The transformative power of coaches comes from their higher plane of thinking, acting & embodying.
This is not a superiority thing. This is a transformative thing because good coaches can see where you need some adjusting to ride the wave. In fact, a lot of clients surpass their coach … just think of athletes for example.
So last year, when I paid 15k (& more since) in full for 1-on-1 with my coach, I wasn't scared of never having money again. I was scared I would never be the same again.
It’s not the type of scared you feel from getting a fright or something.
It's the type of scared you feel when you’re vulnerable.
When you pass the point of no return, have to commit & go all in.
The feeling of “Oh fuck, I may fall & I don't know what's going to happen”
That's the sort of energetic declaration that changes lives babbyyy
I'm getting tingles writing this !! hahah!!
Commit to the wave. Get a coach. Go all in on the life you dare to live!!
Ps. I have 1 space available for 1-on-1 coaching. This is the deep work, so we need to meet & chat first. Book a discovery call & speak to you then.
Be brave,
Jessey